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Finding comfort at Christmastime even in times of grief
Sunday, December 14, 2014 by Scott Scanlon, The Buffalo News Refresh Editor

Paulette Gullo, who lost her husband, Sal, in 2013, finds comfort in continuing family holiday traditions. Here, she holds a photo from their wedding. Robert Kirkham/Buffalo News

It’s been more than a year since her husband died, but Paulette Gullo can’t bring herself to put away his toothbrush or part with his clothes. Kathy Walczak understands. Her husband died in February. “I can’t get rid of his toothbrush or his slippers,” she said, choking back tears, “but that day will come.

”The holidays can be a challenging time for those like Gullo and Walczak who mourn the passing of a loved one in the midst of a season known for its cheer.

How can they find a balance between comfort, joy and a deep sense of loss? When is it better to forge ahead with new holiday traditions or hold fast to the past? How can family gatherings – where loved ones who may not always see eye-to-eye also are dealing with loss – successfully mix celebration and remembrance?

"The idea is to eventually be able to remember a loved one with a smile, and good memories, and to come to terms with our new reality,” but that takes time, said Nancy Weil, director of bereavement support services with the Catholic Cemeteries in the Buffalo Diocese.

“Meanwhile, the truth is that everybody doesn’t grieve the same way.”

Gullo and Walczak are a case in point.

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Grieving is more complicated than seven stages
Saturday, December 13, 2014 by Scott Scanlon, Buffalo News Refresh Editor

Kathy Walczak finds daily comfort at her husband's gravesite in Mount Olivet Cemetery, Town of Tonawanda. During good weather, she'll bring a lawn chair and sit for awhile. (Scott Scanlon/Buffalo News)

Nancy Weil often hears people who have lost loves ones describe themselves as in the midst of one of seven stages of grief.

Disbelief. Denial. Anger. Bargaining. Depression. Guilt. Acceptance.

Before the loss of a close loved one – or a divorce, or the loss of a job – many people tend to believe that they will ebb and flow through these stages into acceptance, as if they were headed toward some destination point.

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Celebrate Christmass Mass at our Catholic cemeteries
Wednesday, December 10, 2014 by Kevin Keenan

Chapel at Mount Olivet


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pecial Christmas Masses will be celebrated at four diocesan Catholic cemeteries, continuing a tradition that dates back three decades.


Mount Olivet Cemetery in Kenmore (Resurrection Chapel Mausoleum) and Gate of Heaven Cemetery in Lewiston (Holy Angels Chapel Mausoleum) will hold Masses on Monday, Dec. 29, at 5:30 p.m.


Holy Cross Cemetery in Lackawanna (Holy Cross Chapel Mausoleum) and Holy Sepulchre Cemetery in Cheektowaga (St Francis of Assisi Chapel Mausoleum) will follow with 5:30 p.m. Masses on Tuesday, December 30.


These Masses can be a special time for families and friends to gather, remember and pray for their loved ones who have entered eternal rest,” said Carmen A. Colao, director of Catholic Cemeteries for the Diocese of Buffalo.


F
or more information, call 873-6500.

 

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Snowvember storm interrupts burials at Lackawanna cemetery
Monday, December 01, 2014 by Dan Herbeck, The Buffalo News


Jim RocheEven the dead were affected by the lake-effect storm that dumped up to 7 feet of snow on a half million people in the Snow Belt.

At the 166-year-old Holy Cross Cemetery in Lackawanna, the Snowvember storm knocked down trees, made cemetery roads impassable, prevented employees from getting into work and delayed a dozen burials.

Bodies were stored in local funeral homes for as long as six days while cemetery employees waited for the weather to improve, said Ronald Paszek, superintendent of the cemetery near Our Lady of Victory Basilica run by Buffalo’s Catholic Diocese.

The weather nightmare was “very stressful” for local families who wanted to give their loved ones a dignified burial in the cemetery of their choice, said Paszek, who is still assessing the damage to the South Park Avenue cemetery. read more...
Bishop Grosz re-dedicates bell from former St. Barbara Church
Monday, November 03, 2014 by Kevin Keenan


St. Barbara bellA bell which once tolled from the tower of St. Barbara Church on Ridge Rd., in Lackawanna, was blessed and rededicated by Bishop Edward M. Grosz, on Sunday, Nov. 2, at Holy Cross Cemetery in Lackawanna.

The 800 pound bell, which was restored by Verdin Bell & Clocks in Cincinnati, rests atop four granite pillars, with stained glass from the former church placed among the pillars.

The bell will toll each time a funeral procession enters the cemetery, which is located adjacent to Our Lady of Victory Basilica. read more...
Revelations - Fall 2014 Newsletter
Friday, September 12, 2014 by Kevin Keenan
St. Anthony Chapel Mausoleum dedicated
Sunday, June 22, 2014 by Kevin Keenan

 
Phase three of the chapel mausoleum complex at Holy Sepulchre Cemetery in Cheektowaga was completed on June 21, when Bishop Richard J. Malone presided over the Mass and dedication of the St. Anthony Chapel Mausoleum.  “This blessing today of this beautiful mausoleum is really a celebration of one of the most glorious truths of our Christian faith – the Creed,” Bishop Malone said during his homily.  “What we proclaim every single Sunday culminations of the proclamation of the resurrection of the dead on the last day and life everlasting.”

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Western New York Catholic Supplement - 2014
Tuesday, June 03, 2014 by Western New York Catholic Staff
  • WNY Catholic Cover
    Download the Catholic Cemeteries of Buffalo supplement, published in June 2014.

    Articles include:

    Cemeteries are for the living

    Bishop Malone, Bishop Grosz to dedicate new mausoleums

    Catholic Cemeteries offer comprehensive grief support programs

    Catholic Cemeteries managing St. Adalbert's two cemeteries

    You can pick up the June Western New York Catholic in any of our parishes in the eight counties of the Diocese of Buffalo.

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Video: Importance of pre-planning
Thursday, May 22, 2014 by WKBW-TV
Bishop Malone's Catholic Cemeteries message
Thursday, March 06, 2014 by Kevin Keenan

Thank a Vet!Honorably discharged veterans living in Niagara County are now eligible for discounts at the Catholic Cemeteries of Buffalo.

Veterans who enroll in the program through the Niagara County Clerk’s office are eligible for a 20 percent discount on all services at any of the Catholic Cemeteries, including Assumption (Grand Island), Gate of Heaven (Lewiston), Holy Cross (Lackawanna), Holy Sepulchre (Cheektowaga), Mount Olivet (Kenmore) and Queen of Heaven (Lockport).

“By participating in this worthwhile program, we are able to honor the selfless service of these brave men and women,” said Carmen Colao, diocesan director of Catholic Cemeteries.  “We are proud to recognize the countless sacrifices they have made on behalf of freedom.” read more...
"We need to make a difference"
Monday, February 10, 2014 by Kevin Keenan
                             In-service

Msgr. Francis Weldgen (left), Carmen Colao (center) and Joseph Lombardo (right) at the Catholic Cemeteries in-service at St. Andrew Parish in Kenmore.


Employees of Catholic Cemeteries of Buffalo met for an in-service Feb.6-7 at St. Andrew Parish in Kenmore, discussing many of the aspects of their ministry.

Msgr. Francis Weldgen, a board member since 1986, led the employees in prayer and then addressed burying the dead as one of the Corporal Works of Mercy.  "We  work for the Church," he said, "we need to make a difference.  We need to treat people with ultimate kindness." read more...